Tag Archives: younger women date rich men

Sugar Babies Are Not Spoiled Girlfriends

Many young women decide to become sugar babies, while rationalizing to themselves that they will become a spoiled girlfriend of some wealthy usually older man. Nothing could be further from the truth. A girlfriend is someone who is a continuous relationship with a person they like and may even loved. They become a spoiled girlfriend if their boyfriend has a lot of time and/or money to lavish on them taking them to expensive places, buying them expensive gifts, and devoting quantities of time doing things for the purpose of pleasing their girlfriend. The boyfriend spends money on his girlfriend because he wants to and if he doesn’t the relationship still continues to be affectionate.

On the other hand a sugar baby seeking rich men only provides her companionship to wealthy men, who are willing to pay for her time. While in many cases she is required to show some affection she may not actually feel any really affection to sugar daddy. And if for some reason he fails to buy her gifts or give her money she simply quits seeing him. A sugar babies only true motive for being with the man is to get money from him for spending time with him.

In addition, no Sugar Daddy-Sugar Baby relationship is ever started until and arrangement is made stating exactly what each party will get out of the relationship. It is basically a business relationship. While the Sugar Daddy-Sugar baby site may state that the relationship is mutually beneficial to both parties, it may not turn out that way.

Motives of a Sugar Daddy

Sugar Daddies and (Sugar Mamas) have different reasons for entering into the sugar relationship. Some of these men (and women) find it difficult to attract younger attractive women (or men) and therefore are willing to pay for their company.

Others may be business people who want companionship and even sex without the hassles you get from a ongoing relationship. Some simply want the companionship, but don’t want the expectation that the relationship will ever become serious or marriage will ever be on the table. Whatever the reason, Sugar Daddies (and Mamas) are willing to pay for spending time with someone younger.

Motives of Sugar Babies

The motive of sugar babies is a purely financial one. Sugar babies demand money, gifts, dinners out, and travel for their company. Some expect a monthly income no matter how often or seldom they see the sugar daddy, while others simply expect to paid on a “date to date” basis. Many sugar babies choose to have more than one sugar daddy in order reap even more financial benefit from these arrangements.

In public a sugar daddy and sugar baby may portray themselves as boyfriend and girlfriend as most people in these relationships don’t want their friends to know about their true relationship status. In other cases, friends and even family members may know what the true motives of one or both of the parties relationship is.

In either case, a Sugar baby is not a spoiled girlfriend, and many of these relationships are short lived because either the sugar daddy or the sugar baby becomes dissatisfied with the relationship and want to change the relationship.